by flawedartist

Question by ihavetodomylaundry: Hot Sex!!!!!?

misleading question i just needed to get people to see my question I already asked this question in friends but its a slow moving board so i'll ask here sorry.

um i guess i should describe myself a little. I hate saying this because i don't like to brag or come off as arrogant but here goes: i'm a very attractive guy (go ahead and knock me but i'm seriously not trying to be arrogant) on the outside. Wherever i go i always get hit on by women but on the inside i'm a shy dork. I feel like my friends are starting to feel inferior to me and i hate it. I love my friends like they are my brothers but i feel terrible when we go out and girls only come talk to me. One of my friends even asked me 'how come all the girls like you'. Ugh it sucks because i don't really fit in with anyone else because of who i am on the inside but i feel like i'm losing my friends (and i didn't have many to begin with but the ones i have are dear to me). It's the same situation at work. Theres a bunch of good l
ooking girls and they are constantly hitting on me


It's gotten to the point (at work) to where my boss told the girls to stop the constant flirting because it was unprofessional. Then on top of that i have to deal with the guys at work who practically hate me because of the fact that they do hit on me all the time. They don't come out and say it but i can feel their hostility towards me; they try to make themselves look good in front of the girls especially when i'm around by hitting me in a playful/hurtful way and crack jokes about me all the time. Being the shy guy i don't ever fight back and then the guys take that as me being arrogant like i'm too cool for them. I honestly do not go out of my way at all to talk to girls, right now i'm focused on making good grades in college and saving money for a 350z (man i love that car).

Another problem i have is that at work some of my superiors (assistant bosses) are women and they also make advances towards me which makes the workpl
ace REAL uncomfortable. They give me higher raises than the other employees and always let me get away with things. This makes everyone else hate me even more and talk behind my back when i never asked for special treatment or anything. Christ even my teachers make sexual inuendos all the time usually involving me (not all the time but its still weird).

My friends are starting to hate me because i attract women and they don't as much
My co-workers hate me because of the same reason and because they think i'm arrogant and that i get special treatment from the higher ups
My bosses/teachers hit on me which makes most of my life very uncomfortable
Girls think i'm a player because i'm always seen in the company of another girl when really i couldn't be any further from that type of person, i'm happy just going to the gym, playing basketball/video games and hanging out with my friends

I'm always agitated because they never leave me alone, i could be getting my glasses fixed, getti
ng groceries, getting gas, anywhere except the gym or in mmy car women never leave me alone. Don't get me wrong i like all the attention (i never used to get it when i was a lower classmen in high school, it pretty much started when i was a senior in hs) but i wish it would just get toned down some so that i could live my life without everyone hating me.

However my BIGGEST concern is my friends (which i can probably count on both hands) , like i said they are like my brothers i mean we went through everything together in high school and i don't want to lose them because something so stupid.

What can i do to not lose my friends and make the workplace normal?

sorry for how long it is but its pretty serious to me
wow, definitely the wrong place to repost this question. I'm not trying to be arrogant but think what you want i was just looking for some more answers x_x




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Answer by Notorious DPT
Too long to read...where's the sex?

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